Besties, let’s talk about Valentine’s Day gift ideas for him—because we’re not doing basic gifts this year. Whether it’s your boyfriend, fiancé, or husband, he deserves to be spoiled (and so do you, tbh) so do him a favor and ditch the tired, last-minute Valentine’s Day gifts and upgrade your man’s life with something luxurious and unforgettable.
This is Andre and my third Valentine’s Day together, but plot twist—I’ll be away on a photoshoot this year. We celebrated early, and let me tell you, he was obsessed with his gift! Some of the gifts in this guide are things I got him for Christmas that he still raves about, so you know these are approved by a man with taste.
Now, if your man is the type who “doesn’t want anything,” allow me to introduce gifts he didn’t know he needed—and will absolutely flex on his friends about. Get ready to shop, ladies.
Designer Fragrance: The Ultimate Power Move
If your man isn’t in his signature scent era, it’s time he takes a deep dive. Andre specifically asked me for Ralph Club Elixir for Christmas, so of course, I got it for him and he hasn’t stopped wearing it since. It’s been his favorite designer fragrance for two years running now, and he wears it nonstop. The receipts don’t lie, we both approve, so you already know it’s elite.
Here are a few more standout picks from Nordstrom, Bergdorf, and Neiman Marcus:
- Maison Francis Kurkdjian 724 Scented Hair Mist – Cool, clean, and lowkey luxe. For the guy who wants his hair to smell as fresh as his wardrobe.
- Maison Francis Kurkdjian Aqua Vitae – Elegant, intoxicating, rich AF.
- TOM FORD Costa Azzurra – Fresh, woody, dangerously smooth. Gives mystery man at a seaside bar energy.
Candles & Essential Oil Diffuser: Set the Vibe
Your man might not know he needs a bougie candle or diffuser, but once he has one, he’ll never go back. Andre uses our diffuser nearly every day, so we had to get him one for his place too, so if your man is into luxe scents, this is a next-level gift.
- Vitruvi Stone Diffuser + Four Seasons Oil – IYKYK. Got this for Andre, and our place smells insane. This diffuser is proof that minimalism and masculinity can coexist.
- Lumira Paradiso Del Sole Candle — It’s giving ‘woke up in a luxury villa with nothing to do but vibe.
- Hotel Lobby Candle Paris Nuit – It’s giving luxury hotel lobby at midnight—smooth, elegant, and a little mysterious.
- TOM FORD Ébène Fumé Home Candle – Smells like expensive leather, fine whiskey, and someone who never checks price tags.
- Honey Birdette Whip Me Candle — This candle doesn’t just glow—it smolders. Because no Valentine’s night is complete without a little ambiance… and maybe a little trouble. Trust me, it’s perfect for the guy who wants to turn the heat up—literally and figuratively.
Loungewear: Comfort Meets Drip
- Silk Pajama Set – Your man wearing these to bed just hits different, trust me. 😍
- Lunya Silk Boxer Shorts – Minimalist, refined, and a bit seductive—just like him.Perfect for the guy who works hard, plays harder, and sleeps like a king.
- UGG Fleece Hooded Robe – Cozy but still flex-worthy. Because even kings need their downtime.
- Silk Eye Mask — His VIP ticket to the best sleep of his life.
Accessories: Small Things, Big Impact
- Gold Handcuff Cufflinks – Classic. Elegant. A lowkey flex. For the guy who’s into power, luxury, and has a bit of an edge.
- Vintage Gold Watch – Gold, sleek, and low-key iconic—because what man doesn’t want a bit of throwback luxury?
- YSL Cardholder – Sleek, sophisticated, refined. It’s giving ‘effortlessly stylish’ with a touch of elegance.
Luxury Self-Care: Because Men Need It Too
- Grown Alchemist Hand Lotion – Hydrated hands = irresistible hands. His hands deserve the best, and this lotion delivers in every way. Andre gives this lotion a 10/10, and loves it so much he has his own bottle on his side of the vanity in my bathroom.
- Claus Porto Musgo Real Soap Bar Alto Mar – Fresh, clean, and effortless. A subtle flex for his shower, and skin.
- Versace Pour Homme Dylan Blue Deodorant — Another favorite of Andres, it’s an intoxicating blend of fresh citrus and deep musk. It’s clean, masculine, and totally boss. Perfect for the guy who knows what he wants—and gets it. 💙
- Botanika Life Super Soothing Pain Serum + Lidocaine + Menthol + CBD – Total zen vibes. The relief is instant, the recovery is next level. This serum’s got his back—literally.
Tech & Travel: The Cool Guy Edit
- Montblanc MB 01 Over-Ear Headphones – The sound? Crisp. The design? Top-tier. The flex? Unmatched. These headphones are straight-up iconic and his ears deserve the best.
- Weekender Bag – He’ll travel in style (even if it’s just a weekend trip with you wink).
- Alligator Leather Phone Case 🐊– Classic, stylish, and tough. This case is a total game-changer and a well-deserved statement piece for his pocket.
For the Spicy Couples
Since it’s Valentine’s Day, let’s turn up the heat a little. ❤️🔥 If you’re feeling bold, consider gifting your man an irresistibly luxe set of lingere, that he’ll naturally need to unwrap in the bedroom. Trust me, it’s the valentine’s day gift that keeps on giving! 😉
- Honey Birdette Kukuro Red 3-Piece Lingerie Set – Luxe vibes with a side of sultry energy. Because nothing says ‘Happy Valentine’s Day’ like a little red-hot luxury.
- Loria Red 3-piece Lingerie Set — Red hot, but make it classy—trust me when I say, this lingerie set is the ultimate Valentine’s gift for him. ❤️🔥
- Sweetheart Suspender Stockings — For the man who’s got a taste for luxury and who loves a bit of tease, trust me, Andre agrees, these stockings are total showstoppers.
- Matte Red Paddle – Need I say more? 😉 This is technically a gift for him and for you.
Whether you’re celebrating together or from afar like us, these luxury gifts will have your man feeling like the king he is. Trust me, once he gets a taste of the good life, he’ll never go back. Happy shopping, besties! 💕✨
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